Totally agree with you. Other people s secrets should always be kept to yourself, that's why it's called secrets, not to be telling around. Be a good listener and not a gossiper I would say. In a relationship, there shouldn't be any secrets other than nice surprises like the example you gave in the video. Also, nothing is only black and white, more often it's hard to judge as we do what we thought was right at the time, not necessary approved by everyone.
Ahh this is a very interesting issue. I feel reassured my secrets are safe lol. I believe you should keep your friends / families secrets . If the secret was about hurting or harming someone... I'd only tell if it was in the best interests of my friend /family member .e.g Save them from getting in trouble. Other than that keep it to yourself as they told u in confidence and it makes your bond stronger!! :)
Good topic. Keeping a good secret makes big surprise and makes people happy which is good. As you mentioned about trust-relationship, will become stronger between them and shows the personality in a good way too. Keeping a bad secret should be hidden forever without lie and truth. So just keep a secret. It is not easy though. People can easily get the feeling from small changes and if you did something wrong and want to keep a secret, you also might doubt people all the time if your friend or partner knows your secret at least if you feel guilty. I think bad secret will be back you in a bad way too.
@Peipei yeah you make a good point, nothing is ever black and white, theres always a reason.
@M_Queenz - Haha, Yup im like Fort Knox!
@Anonymous - Yeah, you're right, keeping a secret is sometimes too much of a burden for the person that you tell. And as for your 2nd point thats interesting, sounds like you believe in karma.
Totally agree with you. Other people s secrets should always be kept to yourself, that's why it's called secrets, not to be telling around. Be a good listener and not a gossiper I would say. In a relationship, there shouldn't be any secrets other than nice surprises like the example you gave in the video. Also, nothing is only black and white, more often it's hard to judge as we do what we thought was right at the time, not necessary approved by everyone.
ReplyDeleteAhh this is a very interesting issue. I feel reassured my secrets are safe lol. I believe you should keep your friends / families secrets . If the secret was about hurting or harming someone... I'd only tell if it was in the best interests of my friend /family member .e.g Save them from getting in trouble. Other than that keep it to yourself as they told u in confidence and it makes your bond stronger!! :)
ReplyDeleteGood topic. Keeping a good secret makes big surprise and makes people happy which is good. As you mentioned about trust-relationship, will become stronger between them and shows the personality in a good way too. Keeping a bad secret should be hidden forever without lie and truth. So just keep a secret. It is not easy though. People can easily get the feeling from small changes and if you did something wrong and want to keep a secret, you also might doubt people all the time if your friend or partner knows your secret at least if you feel guilty. I think bad secret will be back you in a bad way too.
ReplyDelete@Peipei yeah you make a good point, nothing is ever black and white, theres always a reason.
ReplyDelete@M_Queenz - Haha, Yup im like Fort Knox!
@Anonymous - Yeah, you're right, keeping a secret is sometimes too much of a burden for the person that you tell. And as for your 2nd point thats interesting, sounds like you believe in karma.